I am blessed by a very special friend named Lynn Byers who is in Haiti on a short-term medical assignment that ends September 7. Lynn wrote a post this week whose honesty touched my heart as she talked about calling, expectations, and perspectives on culture and poverty. Lynn writes ...
OVERSEAS MISSIONARY WORK FROM MY EYES
by Lynn Byers
It's funny how we term
missionary work as going overseas, but really it is the call of all
Christians as we don't belong to this world so technically we are
strangers everywhere. Therefore, every Chrisitan is called to be a
missionary. Some stay in their home country, others are called oveseas
for a short time, and others for a lifetime. For me, I'm not sure yet if
I'm meant to be overseas for a lifetime. This year here has been a huge
learning experience for me serving in Haiti for almost a year so far.
It will be a year on September 7!
I volunteered 3
places, but most of the time has been spent at Hopital Adventiste
d'Haiti as the orthopedic nurse coordinator (as my job formed itself
that title). I have seen and done so many things as a nurse that in
America I would never get to without 3 plus months training in some
departments (like helping with 3 terrible head trauma
patients...literally transporting the one guy in the back of his
family's car with a trunk that didn't shut; having the security guard
ask to me to assess a premature baby born 2 months early because there
was no Peds doctor available; having to learn to work in recovery room
& train other nurses when I've never worked in recovery room myself,
etc etc). Trying to make things work as a nurse when I don't have all
(actually many of) the resources I need. I have had to tackle less than
desirable living conditions (like not so good hospital food- kind of
just kidding) and work conditions, but still nothing compared to what a
lot of people endure. I have learned a 2nd language in order
to communicate. I have endured some interesting car rides. I have met
wonderful people, especially my children patients and actually made lots
of connections to Americans. I have gotten to tour the beautiful island
and enjoy the wonderful fruits it has to offer. I got to meet (and will
get to meet again) the compassion girl I've been sponsporing for 4
years and nothing could beat speaking to her in her own language. I've
also been soaking up wonderful aspects of their cultures- their
endurance and making things work when it doesn't really appear there is
anything you can do; just singing to praise God sporadically; the smiles
& happiness on kids who live on dirt floors; joining a young adult
Haitian choir; the joy Haitians give in giving you a gift (if you do
something for them, they will repay you somehow); The greeting of a kiss
on the cheek (going to have to remember not to do that in the U.S.);
And living in a community of other Christians long term volunteers (like
a college dorm again!)
I always saw myself
as fitting in better with non-American cultures, but after being here
awhile I realize the aspects of this culture that are equally
frustrating to what I deal with in the states. I'm in a spot that I love
Haiti and the people, but their work ethic and other little things can
be difficult to understand coming from an American perspective. In
general, they move very slow and work becomes more like a social hour.
They often neglect basic care and provide unsafe care at times. And work
items get stolen or misplaced (if not carefully watched or monitored,
usually by foreigners). Basically there appears to not be much
accountability nor ownership of their jobs. I'm not sure the causes or
reasons. Some of it is probably lack of education and unorganization (in
general, life is unorganized here but somehow functions). And many
times the foreigners are called to do many things, and you start to
wonder what they do when we are not here. I never saw myself as saying
Americans are better than other countries, and I still don't think we
are but without a little support from outside help, a lot of hospitals
don't function as well. Every country has its own problems, but every
country also has its own beauty!
Read more at
BYERS
As I prepare this post I am on vacation and have taken steps not to work during this vocation. It isn't easy, but it is necessary. From the blog FORWARD PROGRESS comes some excellent material for reflection:
by Michael Kelley
If you have a job, then there’s a good chance you have at one
time, are currently, or eventually will construct an idol out of your
work. You want to do well, achieve, and be recognized for your work.
Nothing wrong with that – God is honored in our hard work and
excellence. But the idol slowly starts to take shape when you begin to
find your fulfillment in your work alone. You self-worth in the praise
of your boss. You validation in the number of appointments on your
calendar.
Work can be an idol – just like anything else. And just like anything
else, the idol needs to come down. But how does that deconstruction
happen? If your idol is pornography, then you need to seriously think
about getting rid of your computer. But you can’t get rid of your work.
Your family needs you to work. You need to work. It makes the
deconstruction of this idol very, very tricky, but here is one practical
way to start ripping it down:
Get a personal cell phone.
And make that phone the simplest, cheapest, least cool model you can
so that you can barely send a text message on it. This practical step
combats one of the ways that more and more of us are becoming worshipers
of work – through our devices.
At a men’s retreat this past weekend, a guy in my small group shared
his own struggles with this. He had his life on his Blackberry. It was
his calendar, his email, and his personal cell phone. Because it was his
personal phone, he kept it with him even when he got home. But then the
little red light would start blinking at the top.
What’s this? An email? Yes! Somebody needs me! Somebody thinks
I’m important! I am validated because I am so integral that I am
contacted at any hour!
And when that alluring red light goes on, it’s so easy to just click
over and see what’s going on. Even if you’re talking with your wife. Or
listening to your kids. So every easy…
So this guy made the tough choice. Even though he had a stipend for
his Blackberry, he took on the additional expense of getting a personal
cell phone. A not cool one. One that doesn’t play Angry Birds or send
emails. Now, when he gets home, the Blackberry goes in the drawer. The
Zach Morris phone goes in the pocket.
Work stays at work. Home is central at home. Idol demolished. Read more from this
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